Wondering if it’s permissible to hold onto a loved one’s skull post-mortem? Perhaps as a keepsake or for Halloween décor? Before considering such a move, it’s crucial to understand the legalities involved.
Laws Regarding Obtaining a Loved One’s Skull: This isn’t about facilitating obscure rituals; it’s about awareness and preparedness. Contrary to any notion of ‘finders keepers,’ it’s categorically unacceptable to retain a loved one’s skull.
Each state has its own statutes regarding the “abuse of corpse,” universally prohibiting funeral homes from relinquishing skulls to family members. Mortician Caitlin Doughty elaborates on this in her book, “Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?”
“Due to abuse of corpse laws, human remains cannot be claimed as property,” Doughty explains. Furthermore, she emphasizes that most funeral directors lack the expertise to prepare a skull for transfer.
So, What to Do With a Human Skull? While you cannot claim ownership of a human skull, there’s no prohibition against possession (apart from your own). The legality hinges on the manner of acquisition.
Selling human remains is lawful in the U.S., albeit with certain restrictions. Jon-Pinchaya Ferry, curator of The Bone Museum in New York City, has garnered attention for his online sales of skeletal remains, emphasizing their origins in medical education.
Ferry’s educational TikTok videos attract significant attention, highlighting his commitment to destigmatizing bone sales and prioritizing education.
In summary, while the idea of retaining a loved one’s skull may seem appealing, legal and ethical considerations make it unfeasible. Instead, avenues like educational museums provide legitimate access to human remains.